It’s not uncommon for parents of teenagers to feel frustrated when their child resists spending time at one parent’s home. In mediation, we often hear concerns like: “My child doesn’t want to come over unless I plan something fun.” So how do you balance encouraging your child’s relationship with both parents while avoiding the feeling that you’re “bribing” them? Understanding the Teenage Mindset By age 13, children are testing independence, forming stronger friendships, and b

Learn how separated parents can communicate effectively during the first week back at school. Tips on staying consistent, sharing updates, and supporting kids together.

For many families, long weekends mean an extra day of rest, time with children, and maybe even a short getaway. But for separated or separating couples—especially those living under the same roof or managing high levels of conflict—long weekends can feel daunting instead of relaxing. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many families struggle with the added pressure of unstructured time, competing expectations, or simply being “around each other too much” when tensions

As a family lawyer & mediator, I often hear the same story: “We just drifted apart.” While many assume infidelity or financial trouble are the primary reasons couples split, the reality is often more subtle — and surprising. In this blog, I want to explore the lesser-known causes of divorce that I’ve seen repeatedly in my work, but that don’t get enough attention. Whether you're in a relationship or working with couples in crisis, these quiet warning signs are worth knowing.

Discover why family mediation is not only faster and less stressful than court, but also far more affordable. Learn how our process keeps conflict low, communication open, and costs under $3,000 per person.

1. Wait Until the Relationship Is Stable It’s natural to feel excited about a new relationship, but when children are involved, patience is key. Children may still be adjusting to the separation itself—and introducing a new partner too soon can add confusion, emotional distress, or even resentment. Tip: A good rule of thumb is to wait at least 6 months, or until the relationship feels steady and long-term, before making introductions. 2. Talk to Your Co-Parent First (Yes, Re

Start With a Conversation — Between the Adults First Teenagers may be ready for independence, but money decisions still need adult agreement. If possible, have a conversation with your co-parent about shared expectations and boundaries: Will you both contribute to an allowance or will it come from one household? What’s the purpose of the allowance — spending, saving, learning responsibility? Are there any agreed limits or guidelines on gift-giving (e.g., birthday budgets or h

Living in a high-conflict home takes a serious toll on your mental, emotional and spiritual health. In this post, we explore why creating a conflict-free home is essential for your wellbeing and how family mediation can help you find peace, even in separation.